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Not a problem. Debating on newsgroups is something I enjoy in my spare time as well.

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And that's fine. I have no objections to that and the following only backs my view that a man should be responsible and that he (being a man) is at a better position to care for a child:

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That's correct, I would define him as being irresponsible, and not a man.

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You will need to show proof that the research was biased and that your research indicates that both men and women would have equal results in raising children. Also, based on the research I exhibited, I feel that the burden of proof should fall on the mother.

No proof given.

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I stated: "He should not let his most valuable possession slip through his fingers."

Then you stated "Children aren't possessions."

The word "object" wasn't introduced until now.

Or YOU misunderstood my meaning twice. Don't put the responsibility on me. ;)

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Again, the word "object" wasn't introduced until now, by you, I might add.

Agreed, since you're putting words into my mouth and blaming me for their orgin. ;)

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You have to admit that different traits are imposed on one gender versus another. If (United States) society stressed equal responsibility (for example) between the two lovees, you would be correct, I am using an argumentative fallacy. Until the US court system and society changes to reflect equal responsibility on both men and women, I will keep with my views while supporting change.

By the way, we need to have categories, groups and generalizations. Math, language and coherent thought are also based on the ability to take isolated instances and gather them in groups.

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Statistically speaking, giving a single mother custody of the children is disadvantages.

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I have some research websites that state that children under the father's care have more self-esteem and confidence. I'm pressed for time at the moment, and will post them in a couple of days.

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Formula is an alternative. Also can't you buy breast milk?

It's devastating to the child, and both parents.

I could care less if you women use hangers or see a doctor because whoever made up these stupid laws, forgot to include men's input. Also, in countries who actually give the children to the father during divorce, end is not seen as a viable option.

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Nice slippery slope. A couple of things: 1. A child raised by one of his natural parents (who wants to take responsibility of the child) is better off than a two parent household of non-related adults.

2. Where you're wondering where does it end, I am wondering where does it start. ;)

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