Changing the world one boy at a time 6598

Thanks. I always felt protective of my younger siblings but especially her because of her unique circumstance.

Thanks for the confirmation. I'll be around some guys and they're is such denial. They say it's the "dykes" to hate them. THEY'RE the victims! lol

The majority of the gay women I've met from PFLAG and many through my sister's parties (She lived with my wife & I for 4 years - college years) said they tried to be on a friendly basis with guys until they just got sick and tired of being rejected and made fun of. I've talked to quite a few and basically the picture I get is that some of them have grown a bit angry at the abuse and bullpoo. So the anger has reason.

However, like I've learned for myself, sustained anger only hurts yourself. It's the ultimate unfair kick in the butt of reality. YOU get hurt so you can angry. It's a natural response. Yet, IF you sustain that anger it can and does end up hurting you and can even cut your life short.

lol A whole lot of guys are vain. How did humanity pbutt us up? It didn't. THAT'S what I'm talking about. It's only human to be a little bit vain. Geez, if we weren't, we'd go around like slobs. Well, some of us do! lol

Anyway, nobody likes to be rejected. However, it's NO insult if a gay woman isn't attracted to you............ DUH! lol I mean, is THAT stupid or what? It's NOT personal! There has been NO REAL rejection. She can't help if she's not attracted to men in general or any man in particular. DUH AGAIN! lol If she were straight it would be a different story. I often wonder why some people can't figure out some of the simpliest answers to some of life's circumstances.

There you go. Me too. It's all about being "socially acceptable" and pretense. Hyprocrite is the right word. Kind of reminds me of my brother again. IF you didn't know him in the context of his family, you would think he has his woman by her hair and he ruled the roost, was macho to the supreme. In fact, my brother wears a crew cut! lol They'd NEVER guess he's Mr. Mom and actually enjoys it and was scared to rest to try and make it in the world.

IN FACT, having my own business and meeting clients in their homes, I find that there is a lot of variety on how men & women relate. I've seen domineering men & women, which I don't clbuttify either one of them being a good thing. I've seen a lot.

That's true enough, and there's nothing wrong with any man or woman who don't want to have babies. The only thing necessary for them to have integrity and make sure that everything is clear to their partners-mates-live-in-whatever.